Infertility Etiquette
This may come in handy for anyone in our situation having to listen to sayings such as:
"Relax and it will happen"
"Don't think about it and bet it will happen"
"You are young, am sure it will happen"
Ugghhhh enrages me, someone once asked me "So are you pregnant yet?", "Are we ever going to hear the pitter patter of tiny feet?", "Wouldn't ye want to get a move on?"
Once you get married the comments usually come flying, for us it was actually on our wedding day!
Not everyone knew we had been trying for 4 years prior to our wedding!
Personally I now just say to people; "well we would if we could but we can't, but will be sure to let you konw if that "miracle" ever happens, but thanks for asking!"
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